A Stronger Me In My Own Existence

When I think of Jesus speaking with the Samaritan woman at the well, He already knew everything about her life—that she had had five husbands, and the man she was living with now was not her husband (see John 4:16-18, RSVCE). Yet Jesus took the time to speak gently with her about “living water” and the true worship that the Father seeks (John 4:10-14, 21-24). He did not shame her or turn away in disgust. Only after revealing Himself as the Messiah did He say, in effect, “Go, and from now on sin no more” (the exact phrase “sin no more” appears in the story of the woman caught in adultery in John 8:11, but the spirit is the same here).

That gentle yet clear command—“Go in peace, and sin no more” (or simply “sin no more”)—echoes throughout Jesus’ ministry.

  • To the paralytic healed at the pool of Bethesda: “Sin no more, that nothing worse befall you” (John 5:14, RSVCE).
  • To the woman caught in adultery: “Neither do I condemn you; go, and do not sin again” (John 8:11, RSVCE).

No matter how grave the sin or how broken the person, Jesus never spoke with disdain or contempt. He looked upon them with mercy, listened to their hearts, and then invited them to a new life: “Sin no more.”

Today we live in a world dominated by subjective opinion. We easily think we are wiser or holier than others, and we judge—sometimes with haughty arrogance. We criticize our Pope, our bishops, our priests, and fellow Catholics, forgetting that every one of us is born with concupiscence, inclined to sin, imperfect and in constant need of mercy (see Romans 7:18-25; Catechism of the Catholic Church § 1264).

What Jesus models for us is a different way: to examine our own hearts first (see Matthew 7:1-5, RSVCE) and to approach others with the same mindfulness and compassion He showed. Not to condemn, but to invite: “Go in peace, and sin no more.”

Another realization: we are all different. Our temperaments, our spiritual sensitivities, even the way we encounter God differ profoundly. I personally love slipping into a quiet cathedral where I can sit in silence, pray, and meditate on God’s word. This past Saturday, however, I attended my local parish Mass, which was lively and full of sound—murmurs of conversation, children moving about, contemporary Christian music played live. At first it jarred me; I wasn’t used to so much “white noise.” Then the grace came: I realized that each of us is on our own unique journey with Jesus. Some are nourished by the vibrant energy of a full, joyful community; others, like me, are drawn to silence and contemplative stillness in the Lord’s house. Both are valid. Both are loved by the same Father.

We must learn to think and love mindfully, without judging one another’s path. For judgment belongs to God alone (see Matthew 7:1; James 4:12, RSVCE). Our call is simpler and more beautiful: to show mercy, to speak truth with gentleness, and to echo the tender command of Jesus:
“Go in peace, and sin no more.”

May the Lord give us His own heart of compassion. Amen.


God Bless 🙏💕

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